Dear Abby Ashes to ashes not to shoeboxes By ABIGAIL VAN BUREN I on don't my know mind ever since and what to do about it. My sister goes to church regularly and says grace before meals. Please put my mind at ease with some advice, Am I overly sentimental? BEWILDERED DEAR BEWILDERED: Apart from your sister-inlaw's appalling lack spect ter her husband's mains, co*ckeyed here. Each state has its own laws governing cremation the disposition of ashes. under the California Health Safety Code, the ashes not given out.
They are either placed in an urn and kept in bona tide cemetery, put in a oleum-type building, or bur. ied in the earth (like cas. ket) with marked grave. Ask your sister-in-law how come your brother's ashes are in a shoe bex in her closet? DEAR ABBY: My second wife and I have been married for 15 years. My first Donna Kampman wed to Robert Janssen DUMONT -Marriage vows were exchanged by Miss Donna Kampman, daughter of Mr.
and Mrs. Chris N. Kampman of Aplington, and Robert Janssen, son of Mr. and Mrs. Hilko Janssen of Allison at the home of Mr.
and Mrs. Gerald Koobs Grundy Center. The ceremony was performed by the Rev. John P. Ailts, pastor of the Reformed Church of Mrs.
Gerald Koobs of Grundy Center, sister of the bride, was matron of honor and William Janssen of Allison, twin brother of the bridegroom was A reception followed. The bride is graduate of Aplington High School and. is employed at the Lutheran Mutual Life Insurance Co. at Waverly. The bridegroom is a graduate of the Allison-Bristow High School and will be stationed -at Fort Gordon, where they will make their home.
Annual inspection planned by LAPM Canton Phoenix and Phoenix Auxiliary 25, Li Ladies to the Patriarchs Militant, will meet Friday at 8 p.m., for their annual inspection in the IOOF Hall. All work will be exemplified. Auxiliary inspection will be in charge of Leila Neibaum of Sioux City, president of the Department Association. Refreshments will be served by Mrs. Wilbur Phelps, Mrs.
Arthur Zerbel, Mrs. C. C. Whitney and Amelia Sears. FRIENDLY CLUB IS ENTERTAINED Friendly Club met at the home of Mrs.
Glen Wallace, 140 Crescent Drive for luncheon. Games were played with prizes going to Mrs. Walter La Ville, Guri Lockrem, Mrs. W. H.
Lee and Annie Layman. Guests were Mrs. Vaughn Wallace and Christy Lee Angell. The next meeting will be Dec. 7 at the home of Mrs.
W. H. Lee, 136 26th S.W. million neckties costing $26 million were sold Pictures are shown for club Pictures emphasizing the beauty of North lowa, along with pictures of a trip to the Arctic Circle and to the Hoover funeral were featured at a meeting of Club Tuesday at the Hotel Hanford. Pictures taken by Mr.
and Mrs. Floyd Johnson, on the Arctic Circle trip included photographs 'of the midnight sun. Genevieve Wallace showed these included slides of the lilacs at Ewing Park. Other pictures were of the Gays Mills Apple Orchard and scenes in and around Rock Falls. Ethel Wooldridge narrated the pictures of Herbert Hoover's funeral at West Branch taken by the group of 40 from Mason City who attended the services.
She said "History was being made -the burial place was on a beautiful knoll; the military! was outstanding, taps shivers go down one's back." Describing the grave and flowers, Mrs. Wooldridge said "One realized now how great a man was Herbert Hoover." Announcement was made of the dinner meeting to be held Nov. 18 at 6 p.m., at the home of Mrs. Robert Willford, 2102 S. Massachusetts.
The finance mittee headed by Selina Gosswiler will be in charge. On the committee are Mildred Milligan, Tenora Bakken, Florence Sanberg, Florence Bendickson, Bess Mudgett, Mrs. Wooldridge and Mrs. Willford. Yule preparation being made by club Navy Mothers Club met at the Library Wednesday when I plans were made for a Christparty Dec.
9 at 12:30 at the Green Mill. Members will turn in the Christmas stockings they have been filling all year. There will be an apron gift exchange. Gifts will be brought to be senti to the Veterans Hospital at Iowa City for Christmas. Donations for the welfare basket will also be brought to the Christmas The sewing bee WaS postponed until later.
ST, GREGORY UNIT CONDUCTS MEETING St. Gregory's unit met with Mrs. George Karamitros, 128 11th NE, with Joan Tatone assisting. The Cedar Falls retreat was announced for March 1 12 to 14. Plans were made for a smorgasbord Dec.
6. Cards were played, prizes going to Mrs. Leroy Fournier and J. F. FitzI gerald.
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joint meeting of the American Legion Clausen Worden Post 101 and Auxiliary Wednesday at the Legion Club. There were 75 present for the potluck for members and guests. A program of music followed. was given by Ed Chuck, commander. He also spoke on National Youth and Education Week, pointing out that this is one of the many community activities inaugurated by the Legion and Auxiliary.
The 4th district commander, Carson Peterson, gave a short memorial tribute to all veterans. Miss Harriet Hirsch represented the junior activities group of the Auxiliary. Mrs. Walter Alborn and Mrs. H.
E. Shaffer provided music. Mrs. Harold Basinger was program chairman. A social hour followed the meeting.
Mrs. E. 0. Babco*ck, Mrs. H.
H. Boyce and Mrs. Roy Kiser were hostesses. Veterans Day was short talk of Veterans Day Wives club program is on thanks "Bless This House" was the Thanksgiving theme followed at the Wednesday Faculty Wives Junior Club meeting in the College lounge. Mrs.
John Rothamel was chairman for the program and topics were presented by Mrs. Sigurd Walden who talked on "Love, Mrs. Curtis Engbritson, "The Art of Music Apprecia-1 tion" and Mrs. Homer Clark, "Spiritual Enrichment." On the committee were Mrs. Gary Oliver, Mrs.
Louis Bosveld, Mrs. John Knowles, Mrs. Don Henn, Mrs. Michacl Burnett, Mrs. R.
C. Keithahn, Mrs. Lyell Moore, Mrs. John Penney, and Mrs. Gilbert Kruse.
Mrs. Don Siefken received a prize. The next meeting was announced for Jan. 13. Mrs.
Holmlund is honored at party LAKE MILLS- attended a post nuptial shower to honor Mrs. Ronald Holmlund at the Salem Lutheran Church parlors. Mr. and Mrs. Ronald Holmlund were married Oct.
20 at Our Savior's Lutheran Church at Waterloo. She is the former Geraldine Fitzpatrick of Water. loo. lie is employed at the John Deere Tractor Co. of Waterloo where they will be at home.
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16 at Holy Family Catholic Church in Mason City. The bride-elect is a graduate of Nora Springs High School and the State College of Iowa at Cedar Falls. She is in her 3rd year as speech therapist in the Hamilton County schools at Webster City. Mr. Doolittle is a graduate of Ellsworth High School and Iowa State University.
He is engaged in county extension work and operates a poultry ranch in Ham- Music in Poetry is. Writer Club topic "The instant emotional appeal of music and the sounds in ture which aroused emotions fear and awe retarded, for many centuries, the processing of sound into organized forms," said Mrs. Royce Farrer in her lesson "Music Inherent in Poetry" at the North Iowa Writers meeting at the Holiday Inn Wednesday. Mrs. Milton Garfin was hostess.
A dessert luncheon was served. Mrs. Tim Phalen read a Thanksgiving Day proclamation written by John F. Kennedy Lott is a good thing to give thanks unto the Lord." The next meeting will be Nov. 25 at.
the home of Mrs. Willis Bemiss, 726 11th St. N.E. na- of ST. JOSEPH GROUP MEETING IS HELD St.
Joseph Group 13 met at the home of Mrs. Olto Werner Wednesday. Mrs. James Collison opened the meeting with prayer, and Mrs. Fred Wagner conducted the discussion on "'The Holy Land and Its People." Reports were made by committecs.
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be taken to the place where my brother's rashes were kept. She opened the door of closet which was crowded with junk, old lug. gage and boxes jammed in every which way. Finally she unearthed a shoe box and said, "Here it is." I was speechless. I didn't even open the box, but handed it back to her.
I was shocked that my beloved brother's ashes were kept in such a place. I cut my visit short, but it's been Marriage licenses granted NEW HAMPTON Marriage licenses have been issued to Ronald Lee Kerr, 20, Fredericksburg, and Joan M. Adams, 19, New Hampton; Arden Leon Brown, 35, Vinton, and Evelyn Elliott, 35, LaPorte City; Kenneth Albert Bruning, 25, Waterloo, and Margaret Ann Shekleton, 20, Manchester, Hans Henry Fredrick, 62, and Edna Norene Tope, 52, both of West Union. Leo H. Ludwig, 42, and Marjorie M.
Christensen, 41, both of St. Paul; Richard La Verne Harmon, 24, Slater, and Evelyn Jean Rosenberger, 20, Des Moines; Gary Warren Durfee, 20, Burlington, and Linda Lee Johnson, 18, West Burlington; Duane H. Krause, 25, and Sharon K. Sawyer, 22, both of Cedar Rapids; David John Sale, 22, and Erma Sylvia Kral, 22, both of Howard Lake, Robert R. Riesberg 33, Minneapolis, and Patricia munds, 20, Hopkins, Minn.
Woodrow Spaur, 51, and Thelma Jeanette Bingham, 43, both of Bussey; Lloyd R. Bender, 26, and Sharon L. Childs, 29, both of Boscobel, Leland T. Hansen, 51, and Lois Phelps, 44, both of Vinton; Allen Garford Steffler, and Linda Lea Lane, 17, both of Charles City; Abner T. both Mott, of 53, Oxford and Luella Buresh, Junction; Le Roy Seymour, 21, Lake View, and Karen Kay Otteman, 20, Sac City.
Merle W. Sherbono, 57, Boone, and Olita 'Pearl Swim, Polk City; Clarence Ellsworthy Zehner, 55, and Ruth Caroline Fletcher, both of Ladysmith, Marion M. Huntley 18, Goldfield, and Mary Kathleen Berkenes, 17, Kanawha; Roland O. Hanson, 29, and Kay L. Ramsdell, 25, both of Alden, James Robert Anderson, 20, Menomonie, and Mary Saumer Bobo, Colfax, Wis.
Larry Dean Back, 17, Spring Valley, and Donna Lea Pauls, 17, Ostrander, Kenneth La Verne Squires, 22, and Sharen K. Reiners, 19, both of Waterloo; Joseph William Suchomel, 31, and Aleda Irene Kern, both of Rochester, Michael Duane Funk, 21, and Marie Jo Ann Maday, both of Minneapolis; Louis Ward La Forais III, 40, and Felix Mary Healy, both of St. Paul, Minn. FORTY THREE American companies make automobile wife died. I had eight children by my first wife and none by my second.
When: my children introduce me to any of their friends, they say, is my father and this is Mary." Mary has gone all out to be a good mother to my children and she has been: wonderful wife to me. All the children are married and have children of their own, so they could call us "Grandpa and Grandma." Or they could refer to Mary as their stepmother, or, even "Mrs. So and So." What procedure should I use to get my children to refer to my wife in a more respectful manner? GRANDPA DEAR GRANDPA: Why not call your children gether and ask that they reter to your wife in a manner more pleasing to you? vote for "Grandma" for the chil. dren and see nothing wrong with "Mary" the rest of the time. DEAR ABBY: That Tampa funeral director who said the one who cries the loudest at a funeral is usually the one who did during the least for the deceased his lifetime doesn't know what he's talking about.
My husband was killed in an automobile accident in July, and I don't know who cried louder, his mother or me, but everybody at the funeral will tell you it was close. He was the pride and joy of his mother's heart, and there was nothing in 1 this world I wouldn't have done for him. I don't remember what I wore to the funeral, but my sister-in-law told me later that I had worn my heavy winter coat (in July)! And I couldn't tell you who rode where in the funeral procession. All I can remember seeing was that hearse ahead of me. Gee, that Tampa man's letter burned me up.
WIDOW FROM NEW MEXICO CONFIDENTIAL TO D.H. K. IN SCOTTSDALE: If you want your dreams to come true; don't oversleep. Troubled? Write to Abby, care of Globe- Gazette, Los Angeles, Calif. personal reply, enclose a stamped, self-addressed envelope.
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